Finding Inspiration and Healing in Times of Crisis
Many of us are bound by inherited beliefs that are so deeply rooted, we mistake them as our own. Feelings like "I am not good enough" or “there isn’t enough” often originate from ancestral experiences, passed down through generations. These beliefs can keep us limited, confined by invisible walls we don't even realise exist.
I was once caught in this cycle, when I worked relentlessly within the field of corporate sustainability, grappling with climate change and systemic inaction. I immersed myself in the despair of a world I felt powerless to change, working to the point of burnout. It was only when I looked deeper, beyond current events and even my own life, that I began to see the full picture. The inner anguish I carried was not solely mine but a thread connecting me to past generations who had faced overwhelming circumstances and difficult choices.
It was through the practice of ancestral healing that I began to unravel this web. Understanding that my ancestors had faced immense hardship somehow brought me solace and a new perspective to the world I have been born in to. Their struggles to survive in a world rife with challenges planted seeds of inherited beliefs, but they also carried an enduring spirit: one that I could call upon as I created my own path.

Finding beauty amongst the devastation
In the face of today’s turmoil, I’m reminded of John Clare, a poet who lived two hundred years ago during a time of upheaval in rural England: the Enclosures. Claire was living in an extremely distressing time for the English peasants: my ancestors. The way of life for hundreds of thousands of people was wiped out entirely in just a few generations as they were forced off their ancestral lands into a life of poverty in the slums of Victorian Britain. Clare witnessed the devastation to his community and the land that he loved so dearly because of decisions made by the ruling class. Yet, despite the immense grief he felt, articulated through his poetry, he found beauty amidst the destruction unfolding around him.
Yesterday, on the morning that the US presidential election results were announced, I read a poem by Clare ‘To an April Daisy’. Clare captures the beauty of this flower in his words, and as spring’s ‘messenger,’ he sees it as a representation of hope, renewal, and a promise of better days.
There are two centuries between us, but these words from Clare couldn’t have rung truer. Rocked by the outcome of the election, and sitting amongst the despair that many of us are feeling, I can find hope.
Where there is despair, hope is often close by. Humans are wired for optimism: it’s a natural part of our evolution. Even in the midst of global turmoil, we have the resilience to find hope. It is a powerful force, something we can actively pull toward us. One thought I have when I rise up and look at the bigger picture, is perhaps the intense challenges we’re witnessing are necessary pressures, similar to a tight muscle being released. This tension might ultimately drive transformative change, pushing society to address threats to democracy and safeguard values that matter deeply to us all.
I know from past experience, if I focus on world events I can’t control, I get anxious and can find myself on the brink of depression with regular apocalyptic nightmares. I am not able to function in this place. So, now I put myself in a place where I can function: a place where I can create beauty and celebrate beauty. I throw myself into my passion projects and work hard to overcome my blocks to living my best life.
One of our Mystery School members shared this fitting quote, along the same theme, from Chris Packham, in response to the US election results:
“Things have just got a lot more difficult. Here’s what I think. I had no control over what just happened. None. But I do have control over how I will react to it. And I am not going to give up on the beautiful and the good, the grip on my dreams just got tighter.” Chris Packham

An old world dying or a new world being born
Writing this blog, I am reminded of the teachings of Joanna Macy: The Work That Reconnects. Macy’s approach helps people to move from feeling despair about the world to a place of action.
In these turbulent times, are we witnessing an old world that is dying or a new world that is being born? I can hold both possibilities within me. Macy makes the point that we don’t need to know the answer to this question in order to take action. Whether someone is supporting a person dying, as a death doula, or a new baby coming into the world as a midwife, the qualities that are needed are the same. These qualities are compassion, empathy and kindness, and the ability and desire to pay attention.
Whether this world is dying or being reborn, my approach and actions will be the same regardless. What is important that I am not paralysed by fear and despair. What is important is that I find my way into seeing the beauty of this world. What is important is that instead of being numb with anxiety, I am able to move forward and live the life that my soul is calling out for me to live.
Healing inherited ancestral wounds
The work of healing creates resilience and a new way of being. One area we need to turn our healing focus to is the wounds of our ancestors that are holding us back. By letting go of outdated beliefs inherited from our ancestors, by removing these blocks and aligning with our true purpose, we can better contribute to building a world that serves both people and planet.
If you feel called to explore this path, consider joining me on this journey of ancestral healing, where together we can peel back the layers that hold us back and step into a life aligned with our true essence. Here, amidst the crumbling of old structures, is an invitation: to find hope, to seek beauty, and to make peace with the past in order to create a future filled with purpose.
As we face the profound shifts in the world around us, there is an opportunity for healing and growth. The journey of ancestral healing invites us to uncover deeply rooted beliefs that hold us back, to break free from unhelpful inherited patterns and beliefs, and to create a life aligned with our true essence.

Hi Nicola, bit late here, catching up with my reading. Fascinating article you have written. It reminded me of 'At work in the Ruins' by Dougald Hine, which is a book I found curiously reassuring in these chaotic times. Yes, there will be change, and we won't like it, but there is a future, we will survive. But we need to evaluate what it is that we are fearful of losing and maybe rethink our values.
It is great to hear your reflections Pam, thank you. I haven’t heard of that book – I will take a look. It sounds great.
Dear Nicola, sending you a message of deep appreciation for sharing these words of hope, healing and nourishment 🙏🌈❤️
Ah, thank you Andrea 🙂
Thank you Nicola really good article. My ancestors were all coal miners, who suffered much hardship particularly in the 1926 general strike, and the depression of the 1930s and the horrors of the First World War . The ancestral pattern that has been handed down through the generations is fear of lack. I am aware of this pattern in my ancestry & have spent a lot of time working with this.
It still rears its head! For example recently there was an online course being run by The Shift network in the States. I watched the free workshop really wanted to do it but it cost £800 way out of my budget. So I took a deep breath and applied for a scholarship
Which I got😃 I am now doing the course. My first instinct was to deny myself, recognise the fear of lack! and went for it.
I am just starting to write a novel based on my ancestors honouring their lives & laying a few ghosts to rest.
I am so pleased to be doing your free course.Sorry I want be able to join you live this evening as I teach a yoga class& on Wednesday
evening your course clashes with the Shift Network course. I will join you live on Friday evening.
Hi Anne, what an incredible story. I love how you have researched into your ancestors lives and where this has led. Congratulations on that scholarship too. I am made up for you 🙂 See you Friday!
loved the words they were beautiful and have helped me in my healing.
This is lovely to hear. I am so pleased Carolyn 🙂
Wow lovely thanks for this grounded sanity contribution blessings from Black Heath round the corner from where Wat Tyler and his levelers gathered….
Thank you Philip. It is great to hear you enjoyed my blog. What a fabulous place to live.
We live in a fast changing world.
Or do we?
The world ticks to a timescale beyond our reckoning, a timescale of immense complexity and that is the earths strength.
Our experience is years, tens of years. Once we think of a hundred years we get a little confused, a thousand years and we start to blank out, a million years, what does that even mean?
Man has inflicted terrible damage on the earth and that damage increases ever faster but ultimately the world will recover. If it takes a million years so be it, ten million years, that’s fine.
But mankind, what happens to us, to our children and grandchildren?
We can’t stop these massive events but we can lead by example.
Look at that happy person, they seem to live lightly on the earth, they are full of compassion, they see beauty, they create beauty, I want to be that person.
Grip those dreams tightly 🙏
So beautifully written Rod, thank you. I love this phrase about gripping dreams tightly.
Interesting times. I hear people say they want to get back to where we were. that is not possible. There are huge changes afoot. The land grabbing of 200 years ago is no different to the land grabbing attempts at the moment. Farming. Farming is under increased pressure due to the constraints of rules, regulations and subsidies that are encouraged, or even forced. Farming the way my grandfather farmed, by the cycles of the moon, the ability to 'smell' the coming weather, to recognise a 'weather dog' (which he taught me) and impending bad weather have been replaced by weather control systems beyond our imagination. This is land grabbing in the 21st century. If the bankers and the elite force farms into their ownership our food production is in peril, we will be forced to eat, (like our displaced ancestors) the so called bug foods, the factory produced meat that the elite say is good for us. Think to the Industrial Revolution, not different just a modern version. I try and look at the positive and for something to change, first something has to change. Lets not fear the new US government, lets wonder how this may stop the elite getting an even stronger foothold. Astrologically, 'Heads will Roll'. What does that mean? I don't know, but what I do know is that we are fed by the media what the elite wish us to know. Look past that. Look to a new and different future without fear. Fear feeds the fear makers. How have governments and societies controlled a population? Through fear. Fear of starvation, fear of the unknown, fear of darkness. So bring in the light and embrace and LOVE as this new era unravels. It may not be perfect, but then, what is? It just may be the shift that is needed to set the world and humanity on a different path. It may shine a light on the darkness. LOVE, TRUST and be GROUNDED. Connect with like minded, positive people. Look for the reality within the deceptions. Love deeply the planet, the light and all creatures that inhabit mother earth. Unraveling my ancestors I feel, is timely, a little daunting but also exciting. Everything happens at the right time. Thank you Nicola, thank you to WOB, thank you to Jason and his Earthlight films that are helping me to find myself again and focus on healing ancestral wounds. Thank you.
Thank you for such a thoughtful and in-depth note here Leigh. Your comparison between past and present land grabs is bob on. And fear absolutely holds us back. Jason and I are really touched by your thanks. I feel there is a much bigger picture playing out here, beyond what my mind is able to comprehend, and that long term, things will be very different. That is my hope. It is a bumpy old road though, eh.
Thank you for sharing this
Thanks for your note Martin 🙂
Thanks Nicola, I am looking to follow the ancestral healing course this winter during the darker evenings and unpick some difficult family experiences which I think have been passed down on both my mum and dad's sides. I've been referred for Acceptance & Commitment Therapy too as I've had a recent mental health hospital admission so I'm hoping that will also give me the space to focus on what causes a breakdown in my mental health. Stress triggers it, but I would like to understand the underlying cause – I think this work will also lead me to my school experiences and formative years and also my sensitive nature, perhaps even neurodiversity in my genes. My experience has also impacted on my son so i gavent been able to stop the issue continuing beyond me. This blog has helped me remember there is always hope and an opportunity to make things better despite the world around us.
What a challenging time for you Sarah but it sounds like you are taking great steps to get to the bottom of what is going on for you. I am excited for you that you got accepted on to the programme. And also that you are going to do some ancestral work this winter. Thank you so much for sharing and I am delighted my blog has been of some help.
Wow! Just what I needed to read. My husband was taken into hospital 2 weeks ago & life has been very stressful & hectic. I now feel hope, which I didn't prior to reading this. Many heartfelt thanks,
Jo-Anne. XxX
Gosh, Jo-Anne. I am so touched by your note thank you. I hope your husband responds well to his treatment and is out soon. It must be very difficult. Wishing you a gentle time over these coming weeks.
Very inspiring Nicola. Thank you.
Thank you!!
Thank you!!
Although I keep up to date briefly with what is happening in the world, I do not dwell on this.
I feel that is is important to send out as many positive thoughts as possible
and not add to the negative ones already out there.
What a beautiful image you have shared about the flowers, thank you Shona 🙂
I feel that is the best way Freda. To have an awareness but not dwell on things we have no control over. Thank you for sharing.
This rings true to me. I sometimes joke that it’s all about mind over matter – ‘if you don’t mind, it don’t matter’!! Apart from being flippant, this does have some truth – I choose not to let the circumstances overpower me. I will find hope in despair. Even in the desert, I saw some bright pink flowers on thorny sandy coloured bush. They cheered me in a land of camouflage, beige and war.
Beautifully written as always Nicola. I'm reading Joanna Macy's book Coming back to Life at moment & getting lots out of it. My future (financially) has been uncertain for quite some time but out of my control. I've learnt to stop stressing over what may/may not happen & just appreciate what I have right now, although not always easy. I've always taken comfort & renewed perspective from simply being outside & listening/watching birds as they continue their daily life regardless. I also use journeying, oracle cards & ogham staves for support. Yesterday I pulled Blackthorn – much for me to think on there! I also feel the amazing support from TWOTB community & all you & Jason do. You picked up immediately on the community's vibe resulting in this blog which is very much appreciated. Along with that & Jason's Becoming Nature I find it easier to cope in these challenging times. Sending you thanks & gratitude
Thanks Gaynor. That is a lovely reflection to read about how I picked up on the vibe. The blog wasn't planned – it just flooped out during my morning practice of writing a response to a John Clare poem. Amazing how all this works eh!
It sounds like a tricky time for you right now and I picked up that you were leaving your land soon during the coaching call. I love how you are finding your balm in nature. I wish yih the very best during this time of change.
And am so delighted we are able to help you through The Way of the Buzzard 🙂
Thanks Gaynor. That is a lovely reflection to read about how I picked up on the vibe. The blog wasn’t planned – it just flooped out during my morning practice of writing a response to a John Clare poem. Amazing how all this works eh!
It sounds like a tricky time for you right now and I picked up that you were leaving your land soon during the coaching call. I love how you are finding your balm in nature. I wish yih the very best during this time of change.
And am so delighted we are able to help you through The Way of the Buzzard 🙂
Hello Nicola, I don't feel despair at the outcome. Trump's speech was about peace, not promoting war as has been the case recently. Obviously promises must be kept.
He has appointed a former political rival, Robert Kennedy to clean up nature. The air, oceans, drinking water, pharmaceuticals, food production and more.
I have hope and I loved your beautiful comments about it's powerful force for healing in every present moment.
Thanks so much for your note here Catherine. There is a big spiritual following for Trump and also a lot of objection for the opposition too by people I have a huge amount of respect for. This tells me that all of this is highly complex and there is no black and white. The appointment of Robert Kennedy sounds very promising.
Thank you Nicola. Yes to all of this. I’m in Spain and was just out swimming, letting the despair wash out into the sea’s embrace. My thought was that I could forget about the world’s problems permanently and live in this sanctuary of peace. But I immediately realized that I cannot do that… beauty is to refresh and recharge us so we can continue to do the work of protecting it and sustaining it. I also took Chris Packham’s words to heart. We are all in this world and in this work together.
Absolutely Melanie. We need to find our ways to restore so we can come back fully revived ready for the work. Love this image of you swimming in the sea in Spain 🙂
Thank you so much for this Nicola. World events are so often shied away from, whilst they have a huge impact on our well being and, for many, raise the bar of our anxiety.
It is courageous and inspiring that you are willing to address this.
I look forward to your ancestral healing course with hope.
Thanks for your note Lynda. I really appreciate you feedback here and am delighted you are joining in with the ancestral series 🙂
I read a book recently called the stoic handbook and it has helped me because from it I wrote out the things I can control and the things I cannot. The things I cannot control I can only control how I respond to those things and whether this is healthy or not, I sort of choose to ignore it! I have a passing response to it and purposefully focus on something I can control that day. I know that is very over simplified but if you make it simple sometimes that helps. A good little book to read The stoic handbook by Alexander zennon
This sounds like an excellent book. I am so delighted it has helped you Faye 🙂
I read Chris Packham's words earlier and thought, 'Yes that's me! That's the way forward!' I'm also very interested in ancestral memories and healing.
This is great to hear Anton, on both counts. Thank you so much for sharing 🙂
This is utterly beautiful to read, Nicola. I love your comments about midwives and death doulas embodying the same qualities. Those truths were also cited by someone at a Death Cafe event I attended in Cambridge last weekend.
I am really looking forward to learning more, as you share the riches of your experience with the ancestors. This feels a very apt time for me to do this work too x
Thank you so much for your feedback about my blog Kathy. That explanation about the same qualities whether we are supporting the dying or birthing process is great isn’t it. I am so delighted that now feels the right time for your ancestral work.